Memorials to Benjamin Lay 

Benjamin Lay Portrait This portrait of Benjamin Lay was painted by William Williams, Sr., c. 1750-1758. It is on display at the National Portrait Gallery in Washington, DC. A hand-sketched replica is on display in the John Barnes Room at Abington Friends Meetinghouse. The basket of fruit in the foreground is a reference to his being a vegetarian. The exhibition label at the National Portrait Gallery reads:

Born Colchester, England 
Although small in stature, Quaker reformer Benjamin Lay loomed large in the emerging eighteenth century antislavery movement. Having witnessed the horrors of slavery as a merchant in Barbados, Lay dedicated himself to abolitionism. In 1731, he set out for Pennsylvania, where he resumed his campaign against slavery, writing pamphlets and speaking out at Quaker meetings. At the time, members of the Religious Society of Friends, as Quakers are formally known, enslaved people and participated in the slave trade. 

Benjamin Franklin’s wife, Deborah, owned this portrait of Lay. Although Franklin was an enslaver, his printing shop had published Lay’s abolitionist tract “All Slave-keepers that Keep the Innocent in Bondage, Apostates,” in 1738. Here, Lay stands before his cave-like home, holding a treatise “on happiness” by the English Quaker philosopher Thomas Tryon. Shortly before Lay’s death, the Philadelphia Society of Friends passed a resolution expelling members who traded enslaved people.
 

BenLay Historical Marker
On Saturday, September 22, 2018, a state Historical Marker was unveiled along Meetinghouse Road, in front of our meetinghouse, in honor of Benjamin Lay. The application and payment for the marker was generously made by M. Kelly Tillery, a Philadelphia attorney who has a great interest in Benjamin Lay. The application was granted by the Pennsylvania Historical and Museum Commission.
Lay GravesiteOn Saturday, April 21, 2018, Abington Monthly Meeting unveiled a Grave Marker for Sarah & Benjamin Lay in our historic graveyard. The unveiling was followed by gathering in the meetinghouse in the manner of a Friends Memorial Meeting, with a dramatic reading of Benjamin Lay’s writing, presented by theater artist Benjamin Lloyd, and a panel discussion about what social concerns we need to see more clearly today, if we are to follow Benjamin Lay’s example of activism.  



 
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All are welcome to attend Meeting for Worship at Abington Friends Meeting!  

Our official name is: Abington Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends. We are called "monthly" because we meet once a month to attend to business, but we have meeting for worship every Sunday. 

Indoor Meeting for Worship
10:00 AM until 11:00 AM
Year-round

First Day School (Adult Class)
Occasional Sundays, September – May
11:15 AM. All ages welcome.
First Day School consists of talks and activities that provide a Quaker perspective on the issues and challenges of everyday life. 

First Day School (Children and Teens)
All Sundays, September - May
10:15 AM
Activities are offered for high schoolers, middle schoolers, and elementary school children. Click Here to register.

Outdoor Meeting for Worship
Every Sunday, mid-June - Labor Day (weather permitting)
10:00 AM until 11:00 AM (happening at the same time as indoor Meeting for Worship)
In addition to our normal indoor Meeting for Worship, we hold optional outdoor Meetings behind the Meeting House during the summer.

Childcare
Childcare for children up to age six is available on the second floor of the Meeting House, at the end of the building and to your left. 

Parking
Members and attenders park on the right side of the driveway leading up to the Meeting House (accessible from Greenwood Avenue) or in the parking lot on the west side of the Meeting House (accessible from Meetinghouse Road). Please note that our meetinghouse driveways are one-way, so vehicles must enter from Greenwood Avenue. 

Orientation
As you enter the Meetinghouse, which is what we call our place of worship, the room where the Meeting gathers will be the first door on your right. The John Barnes Room, which is where we meet for adult classes, special events, or business, will be the first door on your left.

Meeting Etiquette
Because Quakers worship in silence, please lower your voice when approaching the Meeting House before Meeting for Worship. Likewise, please silence your cellphone.

There is no pastor or minister. Instead, attenders rise and speak when the Spirit moves them, generally keep their comments brief and of a spiritual, heartfelt nature, and allow ample time for others to reflect on what has been said before rising to speak. Statements often have a common thread; however, this is not a requirement. 

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